For many men, stress urinary incontinence (SUI) is a common side effect of prostate cancer treatments^1a. Unfortunately, amidst the flurry of questions and concerns surrounding the cancer diagnosis, many men don’t even recall hearing this part of the conversation when they discuss treatments with their doctor. Let’s face it, most everyone’s ability to process new information shuts down as soon as they hear the word “cancer,” and understandably so.

Fortunately, prostate cancer is entirely treatable in the vast majority of cases. However, the treatment is not without potential side effects, and stress urinary incontinence is one of the most common^1a. For most men, it’s a temporary problem. But for some, the leakage can become a permanent, life-altering issue.

Many men resolve themselves to thinking they must just learn to live with incontinence. After all, the prostate surgery likely saved their life, so how could they complain about leaking urine once in a while?

The fact is that SUI isn’t just a nuisance. It can actually cause other health-related issues and can completely destroy a man’s self-confidence and social life¹. For example, the constant worry about odor and leakage can cause a man to withdraw from activities he once loved,including exercise and intimacy with his partner¹. Another problem can result with long-term use of absorbent pads, which can cause skin breakdown that can lead to troublesome and painful skin infections². The problem can negatively impact not only a man’s relationships but also his health—lack of exercise can lead to weight gain and other health problems.

Fortunately, there are permanent solutions to post-prostatectomy SUI that can put an end to these troublesome symptoms and help prostate cancer survivors reclaim the active, vibrant life they once knew.

A male urinary sling can permanently restore continence for most men with mild to moderate

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stress urinary incontinence (SUI). The sling is made of sterile surgical mesh (the same type that is used to repair hernias), which works like a hammock to lift and support the urethra, restoring their natural position and their ability to maintain continence. The sling is completely concealed within the body and seems to be well-tolerated by most men³. Sling placement takes less than an hour and, in most cases, can even be performed as an out-patient procedure^1b.

For men with more severe SUI, an artificial urinary sphincter offers a greater level of control in a permanent solution^1c. Also concealed entirely within the body, the artificial sphincter consists of a small cuff placed around the urethra that, when inflated, applies pressure to prevent urine from escaping. The device is discreet and simple to use, restoring continence with very little impact on your normal restroom routine.

The artificial urinary sphincter implantation procedure also takes about an hour and can be performed as an outpatient procedure^1d. The system is an effective long-term treatment for incontinence, having been used for almost 40 years to permanently restore continence for thousands of men worldwide ^4,1

If you have been dealing with post-op SUI for more than 12 months, it’s time to talk to your doctor about the minimally-invasive treatment options available to you. You may even want to involve your significant other in the conversation, as SUI no doubt has an effect on your close relationships. The truth is that SUI is often quite problematic for wives in traditional households—in many cases, she’s the one buying the absorbent products and doing the laundry. Partners can often provide valuable insight for the doctor into the severity of the problem.

I recommend making an appointment with your urologist,primary care doctor or family physician to talk specifically about your UI problem. Perhaps out of embarrassment, or not wanting to “disappoint” their doctor with a complaint about an unwelcome side effect of a life-saving procedure, many patients fail to mention this problem on follow-up visits. You, as the patient, need to be your own advocate. Physicians who’ve never experienced the problem of SUI often don’t realize just how life altering it can be.

Once you’ve evaluated the options and chosen the one that’s best for your unique situation, you will be amazed with the difference it makes in your everyday life. I’ve seen an extraordinary number of patients for whom these procedures have made a tremendous impact in their quality of life. With the wide availability of treatments, there’s no reason to suffer in silence any longer.

Kurt A. McCammon, M.D., FACS, is a practicing urologist specializing in male incontinence and voiding dysfunction and chairman and program director of the Urology Residency Program at the Eastern Virginia Medical School in Norfolk, Va. Earning his medical degree from the Medical College of Ohio in Toledo, followed with residency training in urology at Eastern Virginia Medical School and a fellowship in adult and pediatric genitourinary reconstructive surgery.

This article was written with assistance from American Medical Systems to provide general information about male urinary incontinence and treatment options. For more information about male urinaryincontinence and treatment options available through AMS please visit www.malecontinence.com.

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1. Hunskaar S., Sandvik H. One hundered and fifty men with urinary incontinence. Scand J Prim Health Care 1993; 11: 193-196
2. Rackley R., MD. et al. Nonsurgical Treatment of Urinary Incontinence. http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/452289-overview; downloaded May 31, 2011.
3. Klingler H.C., Marberger M. Incontinence after radical prostatectomy: surgical treatment options. Current Opinion in Urology 2006; 16: 60-64
4. Venn S.N., Greenwell T.J., Mundy A.R. The Long-Term Outcome of Artificial Urinary Sphincters. Jol. of Urol. 2000; 164: 702-707.

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• Reduce immune-suppression (anti-rejection) medications to allow her own (donor-created) immunities to attack the virus. This will give her more graft-vs-host symptoms.
• Anti-viral medications (including Gancyclovir).
• “Aggressive” IV fluids to flush her bladder and urethra. This has caused a lot of swelling in her feet and ankles.
• Lasix to make her pee it out.
• Morphine for the pain when she pees.

Yesterday, she seemed to have passed a lot of water, and her urine was yellow instead of orange. I take this as a sign that she’s improving.

Enuresis and Micturition Problems
Coming of age, most men need to visit the men’s room more frequently. It is a fact of life that usually doesn’t attract any particular medical attention, even if the consequences can be serious enough in terms of social and practical inconvenience.
The extent of the problem is massive:

20% of men aged 40-50 experience voiding problems
33% of men aged 50-60 experience problems
More than 50% of men aged 60 or more find their micturition problematic

Prostate and the Ageing Bladder
Most micturition problems are caused by a benign enlargement of the prostate gland, but problems can have other causes as well, like cancer in the prostate gland or in the bladder, constipation, or cystitis.
Urination difficulties are usually caused by a combination of aging of the bladder and enlargement of the prostate gland.

The bladder is a muscle. As one gets older, the muscle controlling the bladder gets weaker and the compliance of the bladder is reduced. The consequence is on one hand that the capacity of the bladder is reduced, while on the other hand the muscle has problems contracting sufficiently to empty the bladder entirely. As a result of this, the volume at disposal is significantly reduced – forcing the patient to go more often to the bathroom.
The prostate gland keeps growing all life. Situated around the urethra under the bladder, it will press on the urethra as it grows and make it increasingly difficult to urinate.
Nerves get less sensitive with age. Therefore the elderly gets the signal of the full bladder later, and the time from registration of the urge until one must, is shortened. Sometimes down to 1-2 minutes. You will then define it as “urge-incontinence”

Micturition problems are caused by a combination of these effects.

Living with Enuresis – The four Strategies

    Watchful Waiting

Common enlargement of the prostate gland is harmless as such. It should be accepted as a sign of age. But the waiting has to be “watchful” in order not to overlook a prostate cancer or other disease.
In rare cases, where the squeeze on the urethra prevents you from emptying the bladder entirely, or causes increased pressure in the kidneys even a benign enlargement of the prostate may require treatment.
A watchful waiting could be combined with the use of incontinence products like UROX.

    Surgical Treatment

Surgical treatment usually means pealing the prostate gland from within by means of a cystoscope. In this operation, the cystoscope is often directed through the urethra up to the prostate gland, where the gland is sliced of, or burned away with a laser. The surgical treatment is very effective but since there is a significant risk of side effects it is only used in cases of severe micturition problems.
Adverse effects can be impotence (<10%), stricture* in the urethra (<10%), and 1-5% becomes chronically incontinent.

    Medical Treatment

Medicine will either relax the muscle cells in the prostate gland, to reduce the tension it is exerting on the urethra, or control the growth of the prostate gland.
In both cases the medicine has a number of known unpleasant side effects, like dizziness and nausea – which may be out of proportion to the problem the medicine was intended to cure.

    Alternative Treatment

Except for an extract of the plant “saw palmetto”, which has been shown to have a moderate but measurable effect on enuresis, no alternative medication has been clinically or experimentally proven to work.
Never the less, many men tend to find some relief in alternative medicine, the most popular being an extract of pumpkin seeds. Since alternative treatments are felt to relieve, but not cure enuresis, it can be an excellent companion to a UROX system.

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It’s a trip how many women do NOT know about their bodies. We have some parents who did not discuss the details of sex, reproduction and all the facts about the body that little girls should be introduced to at an early age, than just in their adulthood. Of course the older a young woman gets, it becomes someone’s task to share the facts of life with her. How else will she know that she will have a month cycle and that it is nothing to be afraid of. My mother did not hold back with me and my sisters growing up. She definitely made sure we knew what to expect and how to take care of our delicate body parts. I will do the same thing. As my mother never thought of our bodies as nasty or something to hide away from. I am thankful for that. Now its my time to get into the facts about our bodies. I plan to share this information and much more. We have to know to GROW! Share this with someone you know who needs to know. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Love your body in a balanced way and it will love you back:-) <3

The Vulva and Internal Genitalia

A woman’s vulva is actually a grouping of most of the external sexual organs of the crotch. The vulva includes the vagina opening, the clitoris, the labia (majora and minora), the urinary opening (urethra), and the area over the pelvic bone that gets covered with pubic hair at puberty (called the mons veneris).

1: Mons veneris 2: Hood of Clitoris 3: Clitoris 4: Labia minora 5: Labia majora 6: Anus 8: Perineum 10: Opening of Vagina 11: Opening of Urethra

The outer lips (labia majora) surround some soft flaps of skin which are hairless. These inner lips are called the labia minora (4) (Latin for minor lips). With sexual stimulation, they swell and turn darker as they get filled with blood. The space between the inner lips and the anus is called theperineum (8).

If the inner lips are spread apart (as seen in the picture), one can see that they protect a delicate area between them. This area is called the vestibule. At the top of the vestibule, right below the mons area, the inner lips are joined to form a soft fold of skin, or hood (2), that covers the clitoris (3).

The clitoris (pronounced KLIT-or-iss [no, it doesn't rhyme with Dolores]) is the most sensitive spot in the entire genital area. It is made up of erectile tissue that swells during sexual arousal.

Below the clitoris is a small slit called the urethra (11) opening. The urethra is a thin tube about an inch and a half long that connects to the bladder. This is where urine comes out.

Below the urethra opening is the larger opening of the vagina (10) (also called the introitus). The vagina is the birth canal, and connects the outside world of the vulva to the womb (or uterus).

THE VAGINA
The vagina is a muscular tube-like structure that connects the external world of the vulva to the internal organs of reproduction (i.e., the cervix and uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries). The Vagina is tucked between the urinary bladder in the front, and the rectum in the back. If nothing is inside, the vaginal walls touch each other. When something is inside the vagina, (e.g., tampon, finger, penis, baby), the walls spread and “hug” the object .

The walls of the vagina are actually made up of 3 types of tissue. The inside wall is called mucosa, and is similar to the inside of your mouth. Just below the mucosa is a layer of tissue that can fill with blood. This is theerectile tissue, and swells when a woman is sexually aroused. The deepest layer is a coat of muscle. This muscular coat is a wrap of tissue that can relax or constrict.

The vagina varies in length from woman to woman, but is generally 2 1/2 to 4 inches long (from vulva to cervix). In addition, the vagina has the ability to stretch quite a bit, thus allowing an erect penis in, and a baby out.

Source: http://www.afraidtoask.com and http://www.Google.com

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Penis size is synonymous with virility in for men, however, do not have an obsession and don’t be fooled because the consequences can be dramatic.

Today, unscrupulous advertising offer the use of steroids or derivatives whose effects are clearly devastating and can lead to serious problems (for the liver and the prostate).

All these gadgets (pumps,creams …) are useless. There is no scientific evidence but the health risks are huge.

Recently, somes websites offer a list of exercices that increase penis size. It’s obviously false and it can cause problems.

BE CAREFUL BECAUSE THIS GADGETS ARE USELESS AND DANGEROUS!

As a matter of fact, for the penis, the user can create damage that will become a lesion. This lesion will modify the urethra(that is the channel in which flows urine and semen) and it can be deformed. It follows some symptoms like desires of ultra-frequent urination, a double stream of urine.

Imagine that you want to urinate all the time every 5 minutes and you cannot do anything for it?Then there is no miracle solution. The only one is surgery and you can imagine how horrible it can be.

If you’ve some doubts about the accuracy of my words, you can read about what is a “urethral stricture” or if you have the guts, you can ask a urologist.
Do this kind of practice for a superficial thing like the size of his penis is not smart.You can lose your health and you can have a lot of problems that will greatly saddened you.

There is one thing more important than the size of the sex: it is love, natural and HEALTH.

Cherish health when you’ve got it. Lose it is a great misfortune in life. Also, give true love to the partner is one million times more important.

We must compose with what the nature gave us. Do not play with the penis because it is the organ that provides vital functions like urinating and having children and if there is dysfunction due to an intervention that will be your, your « system » will be broken.

The most important thing is to turn away from what is superficial like sex size and to look at the essentials: vital to urinate, for me to havingchildren …. Instead of thinking about what is « accessory », the radical solution to turn away from this is to think about love and to have higher aspirations for his own life.

Here is a link to read with the urethral stricture:

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001271.htm

Now let me assure having the ability to urinate is a pleasure when you have simply not being able to pee at all. The worst experiences I have ever had was in the Shellharbour Public Hospital Emergency Department 2 years ago. I spent hours hopping from leg to leg until eventually the ED doctor had researched and sourced a temporary remedy and put in a sub-pubic catheter. This is basically stabbed in directly to the bladder. This did mean carrying a bag around with me as a companion for 2-3 months whilst arranging dilatation surgery with my urologist. The worst part of carrying a water bag was I had tickets to the inaugural Sydney Telstra 500 which had Cold Chisel tickets, I was too embarrassed to attend and so stayed at the hotel and missed one of the biggest concerts of the year.

A few days prior to surgery the catheter itself became blocked. After another visit to the ED and a few hours of hopping to and fro it was replaced. Thankfully the dilatation surgery soon followed. In this surgery the urethra is basically stretched thus allowing water flow. I did have to carry a bag for a day or two post surgery whilst the area healed, though it was a standard catheter which runs through your own piping so to speak. It is one of the weirdest feelings when those a removed, it doesn’t hurt, but feels wrong! Afterwards I spent a year with regular visits to a urologist to have the stricture dilated under a local anaesthetic.

Unfortunately another blockage occurred. This time we went to Wollongong Public Hospital Emergency Department. Again a wait involving hops from foot to foot occurred. However a nurse was able to get a standard catheter in. I had this with me for a month or two and was undergoing what is called a “trial by void”. Basically seeing if not having water flow directly pass the stricture would create a new channel non-surgically. In effect it did, however another dilatation was on the cards. That happened early in 2011 (March). Post op my urologist referred my to another urologist.

That urologist decided after reviewing my notes that the best thing would be to do an exploratory surgery to take measurements and get a first hand look at the impacted area. In particular ensuring that the area is not near the control centres that if disturbed could leave me incontinent. He also threw in a special catheter-less dilatation to get me through. The outcome is that I have a 3cm stricture that is not near a control centre. That means I am a good candidate for buccal mucosal urethroplasty.

So basically what this means is that skin from the inside of my mouth will be grafted over the top of the stricture. This will then be followed by 10 days of doing as little as possible in the hospital whilst the graft takes. After that is another 2 weeks of doing very little whilst the healing completes. Beyond that I will not be able to do anything too adventurous for 3-6 months to ensure that the good work is not undone.

The success rate is very high, there is though a threat that if enough tissue is not taken the stricture may reoccur, in which case the process is performed once more.

The challenge though is the out of pocket expense of around $3,600. This will require both Bobbie and I significant dedication to achieve our goal date of March 2012 for the surgery. Hopefully by the middle of the year my long dreaded fight with this annoyance will be a thing of the past! Then we can move on to IVF … the subject of another post me thinks.

Each week we will be looking what causes the different types of male incontinence and how to deal with it effectivly. Feel free to leave a message with a contact you in confidence. We will not publish any comments with the heading In Confidence.

The Urox system was designed by men for men. A simple yet effective way to allow the active man who has incontinence issues to regain his quality of life.

No more pads. Freedom of feeling normal again.

Enuresis and Micturition Problems
Coming of age, most men need to visit the men’s room more frequently. It is a fact of life that usually doesn’t attract any particular medical attention, even if the consequences can be serious enough in terms of social and practical inconvenience.
The extent of the problem is massive:

20% of men aged 40-50 experience voiding problems
33% of men aged 50-60 experience problems
More than 50% of men aged 60 or more find their micturition problematic

Prostate and the Ageing Bladder
Most micturition problems are caused by a benign enlargement of the prostate gland, but problems can have other causes as well, like cancer in the prostate gland or in the bladder, constipation, or cystitis.
Urination difficulties are usually caused by a combination of aging of the bladder and enlargement of the prostate gland.

The bladder is a muscle. As one gets older, the muscle controlling the bladder gets weaker and the compliance of the bladder is reduced. The consequence is on one hand that the capacity of the bladder is reduced, while on the other hand the muscle has problems contracting sufficiently to empty the bladder entirely. As a result of this, the volume at disposal is significantly reduced – forcing the patient to go more often to the bathroom.
The prostate gland keeps growing all life. Situated around the urethra under the bladder, it will press on the urethra as it grows and make it increasingly difficult to urinate.
Nerves get less sensitive with age. Therefore the elderly gets the signal of the full bladder later, and the time from registration of the urge until one must, is shortened. Sometimes down to 1-2 minutes. You will then define it as “urge-incontinence”

Micturition problems are caused by a combination of these effects.

Living with Enuresis – The four Strategies

Watchful Waiting

Common enlargement of the prostate gland is harmless as such. It should be accepted as a sign of age. But the waiting has to be “watchful” in order not to overlook a prostate cancer or other disease.
In rare cases, where the squeeze on the urethra prevents you from emptying the bladder entirely, or causes increased pressure in the kidneys even a benign enlargement of the prostate may require treatment.
A watchful waiting could be combined with the use of incontinence products like UROX.

Surgical Treatment

Surgical treatment usually means pealing the prostate gland from within by means of a cystoscope. In this operation, the cystoscope is often directed through the urethra up to the prostate gland, where the gland is sliced of, or burned away with a laser. The surgical treatment is very effective but since there is a significant risk of side effects it is only used in cases of severe micturition problems.
Adverse effects can be impotence (<10%), stricture* in the urethra (<10%), and 1-5% becomes chronically incontinent.

Medical Treatment

Medicine will either relax the muscle cells in the prostate gland, to reduce the tension it is exerting on the urethra, or control the growth of the prostate gland.
In both cases the medicine has a number of known unpleasant side effects, like dizziness and nausea – which may be out of proportion to the problem the medicine was intended to cure.

Alternative Treatment

Except for an extract of the plant “saw palmetto”, which has been shown to have a moderate but measurable effect on enuresis, no alternative medication has been clinically or experimentally proven to work.
Never the less, many men tend to find some relief in alternative medicine, the most popular being an extract of pumpkin seeds. Since alternative treatments are felt to relieve, but not cure enuresis, it can be an excellent companion to a UROX system.

You will find very good information about incontinence on the bladder and bowel foundation website

Urox is available from http://www.incoshop.co.uk

Those looking to re-sell the Urox system in the UK please contact C&G Medicare Ltd info@candgmedicare.com Please note C&G Medicare Ltd will on deal with trade customers if you have a VAT number and are already selling incontinence products

The number one question we get asked by women is, “what are kegel balls and how can I use them to increase sexual pleasure?” I will be brief but I could go on forever about kegels. When you have stronger pelvic floor muscles/kegels you can get a tighter “grip” on a penis or even just a regular vibrator. Exercise increases the blood flow and awakens nerve endings to feel more sensation. The easiest way and also the best way to start working those muscles is by squeezing your pelvis. Everyone has done this squeeze to stop peeing because the lid was left down and it was dark or the next rest stop was still 10 miles away. It feels like you are squeezing your butt muscles but these are part of the same muscle. Not only are you clenching your butt but also your vagina. Usually it is suggested you do these kegel exeercises(squeezing your butt muscles) in increasing duration and reps just like working at the gym for other muscles. Once you have done these for awhile then you want to move onto Kegel Balls also called Ben Wa Balls. The Ben Wa Balls originally came from the Orient and they have been written about in history books and scrolls. It has been said that geishas learn this trick young so they can attract the American GI’s during war by their “special skill” that American women didn’t normally do.

There are different sizes and shapes of kegel or Ben Wa balls on the market and the size you order will depend on your skills of squeezing. We suggest that most women start with a Kegel ball that is larger so you can get used to the feeling and learning how to squeeze an item in your vagina. You can work your way up or in this case down size until you can hold the little gold or silver balls called Ben Wa Balls. The Ben Wa balls are the smallest of the kegel balls available and if you do not have a strong grip they will fall out as soon as you stand up. Most of the balls have a string attached to make for easy withdrawal but can also be used for some resistance training of the va jay-jay. As you are squeezing you can gently tug on the string and try to pull them out.

Another  method of exercising kegels is the use of a wand. The wands can do the same as pulling on the string but they are often available in many different shapes, lengths, and widths. Most wands have a bulbous head that is similar to the size of the larger Ben Wa Balls. The wands are more for use at home since it could be embarrasing to walk around with a metal or plastic object hanging out. I have heard of a lot of women who wear their kegel balls to work and even out to run errands so they can really give their vagina a workout.

As far as the men are concerned Kegels can also have a positive affect on your love life as well. For men they can find their kegel or pelvic floor muscle by squeezing your butt muscles. These muscles also contract your muscles in your penis and are the same one you use to stop peeing. These muscles can be used to stop the flow of semen and stop you from coming too soon with some practice because you are closing that door and not allowing it to exit. Women can also feel you clenching and releasing these muscles during intercourse. With practice you can even do a hands free orgasm which could be an event your partner might like to watch. If you have any questions please feel free to comment or drop us a line. Find all of your sex toys at http://www.DallasNovelty.com America’s Adult Toy Store.

Randy Nixon, M.D.

What can you do to help prevent urinary tract infections?

Urinary tract infections (UTI’s) are the second most common reason for patients to visit the doctor, second only to respiratory tract infections such as the common cold. Unfortunately, the majority of cases of UTI occur in women.

What can you do to help prevent urinary tract infections?

The National Institutes of Health recommends the following tips to reduce your risk of developing a UTI.

1. Drink plenty of water daily to help flush out the system. Nothing is better than water.
2. Don’t hold it when you need to urinate! Women often try to finish a task before they go to the bathroom. Holding it may allow the bacteria to progress into a full-fledged bladder infection. Try to urinate every 2-3 hours during the day.
3. You’ve probably heard that you should wipe from front to back after a bowel movement. This is especially important to help prevent bacteria from getting into the urethra.
4. Taking showers instead of baths helps prevent bacteria from entering the urethra and causing a UTI.
5. Always wash your genital area both before and after sexual intercourse to help prevent transferring bacteria into the urethra. Urinate after sexual activity.
6. Feminine hygiene sprays and douches, particularly scented douches, can irritate the urethra and possibly lead to a UTI.
7. Drinking cranberry juice is a fairly well-known and natural way to both help prevent urinary tract infections, as well as help speed the recovery process when a UTI develops.
8. Another nutritional way to prevent UTI is to take vitamin C supplements. Vitamin C, or ascorbic acid, increases the acidity level of urine and discourages the growth of some bacteria.
9. Women who suffer from extremely frequent urinary tract infections may be prescribed an antibiotic to take immediately after sex to help prevent the likelihood of urinary tract infection occurrence.

New research suggests that a woman’s blood type may play a role in her risk of recurrent UTIs. Bacteria may be able to attach to cells in the urinary tract more easily in those with certain blood factors. Other studies show women and children who tend to get UTI’s may lack proteins called immunoglobulins, which fight infection. A vaccine may help patients build up their own natural infection-fighting powers. Researchers are testing injected and oral vaccines to see which works best.

Ask your doctor if you should see a Urologist to help prevent and treat urinary tract infections.

When you get fever, hold a bottle of water, chant all the organ mantras and give it the concerned person. Check out the “Organ Mantra” CD. It contains all the Organ mantras.

Stomach related

Chinese Mantra EEJOE is very good for gastritis, gas problem and stomach related diseases. After overeating, EEJOE is the mantra to be chanted.

Sugar Issues and a need for good digestion

Chant the mantras RUM BUM LUM DHUM. Dhum gives comfort after eating. The food that was eaten has to be digested and we should be ready for the next meal isn’t it

Madhavam Madhavan

This mantra acts on our nervous systems. It improves shoulder movement and removes pain.

Lower Back Pain

JOE LEU

Memory Loss

WUNG R HONG, this is a Chinese mantra that improves your memory and helps people afflicted with Parkinson disease.

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KAALA HANDRI SARVA VYATHI PRASHAMANI KAALA HANDRI SARVA MRUTHYU NIVARANI: is useful to handle psychiatric problems. This mantra goes to the root of the disease and heals it. It takes care of children and protects them from untimely deaths. There will be no accidents. Life will be fully protected.

Some more mantras

In Chinese there is a mantra pronounced as “EE”. We have an equivalent mantra “EEM”. To take care of the right ear we can keep on say this mantra.

“BUM” will remove any cough

“PAM” will clear urethra the urine pathway.

OM HROOM works effectively on liver and thus handles our anger effectively. H is connected with breath and therefore all the internal organs mantras have ‘H’ in them

A Chinese man thought he was spending a day at the spa with a special “fish pedicure” that includes tiny eels that chew away dead skin and give you more youthful, glowing skin. Except in this case, one of the little eels swam up into…

The man’s penis and into his bladder. Can you imagine the pain? No, I can’t either.

According to the man, 56 year old Zhang Nan, he said he “tried to hold it and take it out, but the eel was too slippery to be held and it disappeared up my penis.”

Following 3 hours of surgery, the SIX INCH eel was removed, and believe it or not, this is not the first time it has happened.

Happy Friday!

[Source: Metro]

But what has happened in equal measure is that I have learned so much more than I ever thought possible about my own erotic mind and orgasmic response, probably an equal amount to what I learned about ladyland.  I have been erotically transformed.

Aside from my MMO’s themselves the two things that are most noteworthy about myself is the change in my nipples and my frenulum and the way we share oral sex.

As I have said in earlier posts, after I was rewired my entire sense of the erotic shifted.  My nipples were the first realization.  I discovered this one day when I was stretched out on my back allowing my wife to wander over my body and play.  From the pleasure she experienced from my playing with her pink buds she decided to try the same techniques on me.   First she tenderly kissed them and slowly transitioned from gentle butterfly kisses to licking slowly in a circle starting outside my areola, circling closer toward my nipple. She kept tantalizing me by zeroing in closer with her tongue. Finally, quickly she flicked my pebble hard erect nipple and then gently she bit it.  My cock which was already hard lurched and a big teardrop of precum drooled out.

This particular event occurred within a few weeks after my first MMO.  I knew instantly that something was different.  It was excruciatingly arousing.

When she sucked my hardened nip into her mouth and wrapped her lips over each bull’s-eye and gently sucked on it, tugging it into her mouth and massaging it with her toungue I actually got a pleasure wave deep in my rectum.  I felt my prostate hardening and contracting in delicious spasms..  This was my first realization that there was a direct line to my prostate from my nipple.

I have always been aware of the hot spots on my cock but I never learned how to extract extreme amounts of pleasure from them.  At the top of my list is the upturned helmet of my glans.

In my aneros and anerosless induced MMO’s I learned that my frenulum scar is more sensitive to pressure than it is to friction. For MMO’s,  pressure on my frenulum is a prerequisite for exquisite multiple dry orgasms, but more on that later.  The other thing that I learned about my frenulum is that it is extremely responsive to heat, especially the wet heat of my lady’s mouth.  As I learned more I taught her more.  Even at middle age she was a motivated learner.  Using my frenulum wisely will not only trigger very deep dry orgasms but it will also hasten and increase ejaculatory orgasms.

In the last several years she has learned to provide me with the highest degree of pleasure possible from oral sex and to express the deep level of adoration that she has for me by how she sucks my cock.  Although she has been sucking my cock for many – many years it was in these last few years that she became a master and really learned to put emotion into oral sex on me.  I can sense it and it amplifies my orgasms significantly. 

My favorite way to cum from oral sex is to have me laying on my back, relaxed in bed with my erect cock pointing toward the ceiling, she will cup my balls in one hand and gently, using only her tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of my corona.   Doing this on the warmth sensitive underside will make m y cock drool incessantly. 

As mentioned above, for me the most sensitive area is the point where my corona folds underneath and attaches to what is left of my circumcised frenulum.   She learned to gently massage this ultra sensitive area with her tongue, sometimes just letting it sit on her tongue while I savor the warmth and reward her tongue with sweet drops of clear precum. 

The head of my penis swells somewhat larger then it is during the normal course of my erection, especially when I am about to cum.   Because the most erotically responsive part of my cock is in the cleft of the frenulum, the best position to make me cum is to approach me from below.  This means either kneeling between my legs on a bed or kneeling between  my knees while I stand.

When she puts my stiff cock inside her mouth but doesn’t not tighten her lips around the shaft and teases my frenulum with her tongue it drives me crazy.

Sometimes I will sit in an elevated position in a chair and she will kneel with her face between my thighs;  she will lift my cock and hold it to my belly so she can access my balls. With her tongue she will manipulate the underside of my balls. She will alternate the manipulation with resting my balls on her warm tongue; intermittently she will lick in an upward motion to the very tip of my cock licking up the stream of precum that is usually running a stream down my shaft in the process.

I love to feel the warm secure caress of my shaft by her mouth.  To give me this exquisite and loving feeling she will put my cock in her mouth by sliding her tongue lovingly over the head until her lips close around the shaft just behind my corona. She doesn’t open her mouth and close it around my penis, instead she pushes my cock into her mouth allowing it to force her lips and mouth apart as she sucks it in. She will encase the shaft with her hand while her mouth caresses my cockhead tightly. By enclosing my cock with her hand she gives me the sensation of having my penis totally encased.  I love it!!!!!!!!!

Because the underside of my cockhead at my freular scar is so erotically sensitive she knows to take advantage of it. Making sure her moist lips stay in contact with my corona she will firmly massage the underside of my cockhead with her tongue while alternating forcing the slit in my cock open with her tongue to catch my precum before it drips from me. While doing this she will gently move her hand up and down my shaft.

When I climax this way she feels every inch of the swelling and pulsing of my cock both before I empty into her mouth and during the climax itself.  She knows I am cumming because my cockhead will swell significantly before I squirt the first rope of cum.  When she realizes I am about to cum she will gently suck around the corona as I climax.  The suction around my cockhead intensifies my pleasure and increases the force of my orgasm.  When she sucks vigorously on the head of my cock it makes the cum spurt much longer and more intensely as a result.  The force of my cum in this position is usually so strong I will shoot ropes of semen directly into her stomach.

The pleasure in this is increased ten fold as we have learned to give each other oral pleasure very slowly.  Slow and mindful sex is the most significant lesson I have learned so far.  When she makes love to my cock with her mouth for an hour or more I will cum with such intensity it can actually scare me sometimes.

There is so much more I will write about the pleasure we share.  But sadly for now this will be the last entry I will do until the end of October.  I will be traveling most of the next four weeks out of the country.  I hope that you all will pick up reading again after I return. 

If you have been enjoying this blog let me know by commenting or by maintaining a comment dialogue while I am gone.

Have a happy October all.

Linghaman