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BehindMyChoice:Attitude Adjustment

Anniversaries are supposed to be a date to celebrate.  Today is an anniversary I struggle to even want to acknowledge.  I still fight back dark emotions and reactions of what this “anniversary” reflects.   368 more words

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Behindmychoice: Address the Emotions...again

Emotions hit out of nowhere.  They take over at times, even 2 years later.  They fluctuate from anger to fear, sometimes it’s frustration or just plain sadness.   1,282 more words

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The Name Thing

It’s as if the heavens opened up and declared my destiny in a single name…at least that’s what I thought at the time. We had been surviving the first few months after I found out about Chris’s affair. 864 more words


Triggers and Flashback

I didn’t realize how traumatic an affair could be, I understood the destruction of trust and the resentment, but I never thought about flashbacks. It seems that everything is a trigger, when my wife calls my son “E” it sets my mind off because that’s how she referred to him to Mike. 132 more words

Affair Recovery


I discovered my wife’s affair in January, and although we are doing incredibly better (thanks only to our faith and relationship with Jesus) I thought it might be helpful for me to blog about what is happening inside my own head rather than reopen old wounds within my marriage by constantly bringing it up. 548 more words

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When It Matters Most

I like to imagine that I have my own bodyguard. A tough guy, who is equally intelligent. Imagine James Bond, minus the misogyny, following me around and protecting me from the world’s terrors. 1,202 more words

Spiritual Growth

Lost Boy


Is it funny, ironic? That the ONE thing we have all been searching for, when found is maybe the scariest part of healing?

We used to take happy for granted, at least I did. 783 more words