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January 22 - Ears to Hear

Mr. Alexander wouldn’t let me off the hook. I had a habit of making excuses for my irresponsible actions.

I realize now that my behavior stemmed from a reluctance to obey authority. 382 more words


Boundary Lessons from Infants


I am about to graduate, and one of my greatest fears is that I won’t have any friends after college. I know it sounds irrational, but I have had a bad history with friendships. 2,135 more words

Blog Posts

On not taking on board shadow projections of the narcissist

I have just been re-reading one of my favourite psychology books from years back Owning Your Own Shadow : Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche.  1,732 more words

Self Awareness

Spontaneous Mental Purge

I don’t want to live my life

I don’t even want to try

They gave me rules

They gave me goals

And I followed all the rules… 177 more words


I Really, Really Scared Myself

On Thursday morning, my bags are packed, and I’m ready to go to the psychiatric hospital.

I haven’t slept much. I’ve looked though the timetable of mandatory activities for inpatients, and they mostly look okay, but I’m terrified they’re going to make us do some kind of interpretive dance workshop where we pretend to be trees. 2,467 more words


Love slipped through my fingers

love slipped through

my fingers

like liquid gold

it could not be held,

i wanted solid love

filling me up

making me strong

i was wrong, 49 more words