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“Wow, She Looks Really-“ No. Stop Right There.

You can be your own worst enemy. No, not because you still drunk dial your ex every Saturday night. Not because you see that pile of dirty knickers piling up in the corner of your bedroom every morning and still can’t be arsed to put them in the wash (you can always buy new ones from Primark, anyway).  352 more words


No more a spectator

So I just read this post by Hannah Brencher (https://hannahbrencher.com) with the following quote:  “You are suddenly a character, not a spectator.”  And I am realizing she is not talking about literature, but life. 265 more words

Doing What Must Be Done

My greatest source of unhappiness is my need to compare myself to others. It’s like an addiction. I know better, and I know it will never bring happiness just like my mother knew smoking was bad for her. 494 more words

Comparing Yourself to Others

Passing along a little something to ponder….



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I'm 'sad' | Unplugged #1

No one liked my last Random Thoughts. Was it because of my twelve point Bobservations? I’m sorry!

Actually, I’m not. Haha.

Anyway, new blog series! 458 more words


Stop Looking Over Your Shoulder.

Hello everyone and welcome back to The JC Effect!

This has been such an emotional week for me. I have almost cried at LEAST 12 times this week but I’m finally going to let the tears go today. 664 more words


Finding Your True Center

Do you ever wonder what else is to do other than comparing yourself to others? At work or at social circles, you find yourself feeling ‘uneasy’ when someone achieves a goal, wins a metaphoric trophy and can’t help notice you are slightly embarrassed about it. 483 more words