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Stille Nacht

I wasn’t prepared. I had no idea. Tonight, I was part of a concert and one of the pieces that the symphony played was one that I listened to over and over back in the winter of 1995.  1,301 more words

Self Acceptance

Two Different Boxes....and the Many Moods of Christmas

Thanksgiving and Christmas in LA are just weird.  As much as I love it here, getting ready to bake a turkey on a day with predicted 89 degree weather sort of makes me long for the holiday season living in the north for 43 years of my life.  1,723 more words

Self Acceptance

Dangerous Illusions: The Dark Side of Denial

” What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” is nothing more than a trite saying. Often what doesn’t kill someone weakens them tremendously, and results in the development of various issues and complexes. 620 more words

When the dead comes back to life

Lately, it seems like I’ve been encountering people who are supposed to be already dead coming back to life. I’m not sure if I just became aware of it after watching  1,294 more words

A Musing Mom's Tales

Making Friends With Your Past

There is a question I’ve been asked in a variety of different ways from different women, and it goes something like this:  Is it important for me to examine my past (and they are referring to negative, painful, or traumatic experiences) in order to help me deal with my present struggles/issues and to heal or move on? 2,314 more words

Biblical Counseling

Why I wrote UVF: Behind the Mask – Part Two

Without doubt this has been the most difficult book I have ever written.

My other books are on a variety of different subjects, ranging from a history of the labour movement in Northern Ireland to insurgency in South Yemen. 1,901 more words

So your life isn't perfect, but it's the only one you have...

I’m not sure why I titled this blog as I did, but perhaps it captures the feeling more than the content of what I am going to say. 1,106 more words