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Joining the Asexual Community: October 2016 Carnival of Aces submission

I very much feel like I fell into contact with asexual communities by accident. I can’t remember when I first learned about asexuality – probably it came up in connection to the LGBTQIA+ acronym at some point (though asexuals sometimes get erased in order to include allies in the alphabet soup (*eyerolls forever*), I’m sure I saw it done right in my teenage years some of the time. 359 more words

happy asexual awareness week: demi edition!

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Define casual 

So a few months back while discussing arrangements and what I wanted out of my sexual ventures RG disclosed he had topped casually and I came to the conclusion that I didn’t want to be casually topped. 304 more words


Getting to Know Yourself


It’s a fun word.  Until recently I’d not heard of it, but it started coming up in some reading Mrs. AP and I had been doing, and we being the ever curious types, we looked it up.  568 more words

Mr. AP Says...


I’ve had the exact same dream 3 mornings this week. It’s normally in the wee hours of the morning between me waking up to check the time and my alarm sounding. 221 more words


My Sexuality

Now I know that you’re probably thinking “Oh god, not another person coming out on the internet” Now wait wait wait.

1) That’s kind of rude, if someone wants to come out online, that is their choice… 661 more words

Confusing Feels

I remember having a crush on R. He´d circulated an email among the members of the aeroclub, asking if somebody had some furniture to spare. Back then, some three years ago, I was on the verge of moving from an ample apartment to a shared flat, and needed to get rid of some excess household appliances, like a small fridge and a washing machine. 325 more words