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1. The Clubbing Guy Archetype

The weather is finally warming up so I have been catching quite a bit of an unappreciated tan.

I decided to start a series of posts regarding the types of guys that have asked me out on dates. 267 more words



It all starts when you’re a teenager. Being told not to get too dark in the summer, but being the envy of your non-South Asian friends for always having a great “tan.” Hoping your parents won’t notice that you were wearing eyeliner and lipstick earlier, because you wiped it off before you got back home. 482 more words


Transitioning (from my experience)


That’s just a given. It’s a longggg hard process that may suck….but it so so worth it.I am a few months into my transition and boy do I hate it now but at the very least I know that when I have my bouncy curls back I’ll be so overjoyed. 291 more words


chosen family

as a queer panjabi first generation woman, i would be nowhere without my chosen family.

i have come a very long way in understanding myself, my relationship with my parents and the rest of the family, and what it means to both receive and give love & nurture. 1,173 more words