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giving myself permission to give up control

When you’re a type A, highly organized, advanced planning type of gal, giving up control can be as easy as giving up chocolate or wine or some other highly coveted obsession for the 40 days of Lent, or worse, permanently.  906 more words


Fetlife is not so safe 

Preach sister.

As someone violated by a local Dom and unable to advise others or provide the wonderful resources of Kitty Stryker, this is so true. 43 more words


5 Lessons Vanilla Relationships Can Learn From D/s

Personally I believe every relationship should be Dominant/submissive. Pick up your jaw and read on.

Let me first define what I mean by a Dominant/submissive or D/s relationship. 727 more words



I tweeted the other day about how I feel like a walking contradiction these days. I had simultaneously felt the strong want to go dancing, to let loose, and be free, while I’ve also been thinking a lot lately about submission, being controlled, restrained, and guided. 383 more words

Random Thoughts

Slip down

Hands trace up your arms

Rough and strong, yet gentle on your skin.

They pause along your shoulders

Coupled with warm breath on your neck… 233 more words

how did I become so dominant?

I was born a redhead.  My mother cried when I was born and saw my bright, red hair — anticipating years of sunburns and redheaded tempers.  325 more words


I'm looking for something.

Here’s my situation: I’m under 21 years old and I’m looking for a women or a man who is willing to be my dom/dominatrix trough e-mail . 28 more words