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Active submission is the topic for the chat we are having tonight at The SafeworD/s Club so, as I was doing some preparation for that anyway, I thought that I may as well form it into a post. 1,982 more words

Building A D/s Dynamic

Beware the false prophets. One of the reasons I gave for starting my blog was that when I started out on this journey, I found it difficult to find reliable information about living in a D/s relationship. 1,009 more words

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Engaged Couple Should Sort This Out Before Getting Married

Mariah wrote: “I have an issue that I don’t know how to solve. My fiance wants me use a strap-on with him but I am conflicted. 243 more words


Our new site, The SafeworD/s Club, is now open for business so please come along, register and have a look around.

We would love you to join us for our opening night on Friday 16th June from 8pm until 8am (British Summer Time). 9 more words

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I think I have said before that a D/s marriage is not all bells and whistles. The physical part of the relationship is amazing of course but much of the time you are a regular couple doing regular couple things. 720 more words

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Take it to the limit

One thing I think is extremely important in the sex life of any couple is the ability to be honest with one another. The both of you need to be able to talk about everything in a judgement free environment- my husband and I say we have “full disclosure” with each other. 212 more words

I sort of feel it may be more appropriate to ask when real life doesn’t interfere with our D/s!  I think from the very beginning, well at least after the first week, things started to get in the way of what we wanted to do and where we wanted to take this.   1,031 more words

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