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I have written about pain before and in my post Pleasure from Pain looked at the relationship between the two and how that works for me. 1,053 more words

Submissive Musings

The theme for HisLordship’s advent gift to me on the 17th, was ‘Christmas Lights’. He bought an electro-play kit a little while ago and we had never had the chance to use it. 740 more words

Play, Scenes And Kink

I have often said that I think D/s is like a dance. This is because, if done well, it can be a thing of beauty. There is a lot of focus required, there are intricate steps to learn, you can add lib a little depending on your mood and it is one of those things where no matter how skilled you are, there are always new moves to learn and to try.   806 more words

Submissive Musings

Last year I decided to make a submissive advent calendar for HisLordship. This came out of the fact that we had decided not to do much in the way of presents for each other so I thought that giving something small to Sir each day would be a nice way to build up to Christmas and make a little more of it for him.  301 more words

Submissive Journal

Sometimes Sir and I can go through times where we are less physical together than at others. This can be for a variety of reasons. Maybe one of us is tired or stressed or sick or working away or involved in dealing with something emotional. 725 more words


HisLordship was working away last week. Usually this would be something that would be hard to get through as the usual routine is disrupted and the time that you usually have to connect with each other is suddenly not available. 1,176 more words


I mentioned in my last post the reasons why we decided to begin a D/s relationship which made me reflect. Reading back over my post  1,434 more words