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"Terms of Respect"...

One the things that drives me a bit nuts in the “BDSM community” is the reliance on titles.  Master/Mistress, Sir, Daddy, and the list can go on but why does it seem that people expect a title?  610 more words


My Everything but Why Do I Feel Empty?

It amazes me how he can just look at me and make me smile. Even on the bad days.

I don’t need his money…. Just his time, adoration, commitment and love. 169 more words

Random Thoughts

Well...How Did I Get Here?

Sometimes a song can trigger a thought or thoughts in your mind.  Today that happened with me and the Talking Head’s song Once in a Lifetime. 833 more words


Your D/s Relationship: You're Doing it Wrong

When you judge another,
you do not define them,
you define yourself.
~ Wayne Dyer

Call it naivete or wishful thinking, but I was really hoping that people in the lifestyle would be less judgmental.

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Come On Man!

So last night I while I watching my Detroit Lions suffer through another agonizing loss, I was also going through FetLife and reading some of the posts in a few of the “Daddy Dominant” groups I belong to.  631 more words


Misused Kink Terminology...

I realize that within the world of kink, terms and definitions can have multiple meanings and the same word can mean two different things to two different people.  571 more words


A Photo Double Standard...

This is just one of those random thoughts that hit me from time to time.  Women on kink sites always complain about the men with the cock shot as their avatar or in their slew of profile pictures and this I can understand.  89 more words