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When Love meets Fear

How comfortable is it for you when someone looks deeply into your eyes? This blog which I wrote a few days ago was prompted by a comment received on a recent blog The Loving Gaze from myblackspotblog. 1,341 more words

Self Awareness

Day 42- The Journey Continues...

It’s difficult for me to allow myself to be free, confident, and serene. I impose rigid expectations on myself and when I don’t deliver, I feel the muscles in my face, neck, shoulders and lower back become tense. 773 more words


Restless For Our True Identity

Isaiah 50: 5-9a; Mark 8: 27-35

Each year around the anniversary of 9/11 I try to reflect a little on where we’ve come from and where we still need to go into the future. 904 more words


Is the False Self on a spectrum?

I’ve been wondering about something. If you don’t have enough symptoms or they’re not severe enough to qualify for the NPD label, is it still possible to have a false self? 386 more words

False Self

Day 35- Opening to Abundance- Part 1

Ok, it’s time… I’ve been avoiding mentioning a certain topic. Not on purpose. I didn’t realize until I started typing just now why I’ve been avoiding it, but it… 602 more words

Aha Moments

Why does a narcissist need a false self?

On one of Sam Vaknin’s discussion pages, someone asked a very good question:
Why does the narcissist conjure up another Self? Why not simply transform his True Self into a False one? 1,299 more words

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Day 33- My Paradigm Shift

My activities on this journey have more or an inward focus lately. At the beginning, as I mentioned in this post a couple of days ago, everything I was doing was very expressive. 599 more words