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Kitten in the rain..?

So a bunch of stuff has happened since the last time I posted… Well it sort of feels like it has, or maybe it hasn’t… 472 more words

Hvor treffer man likesinnede?

For noen er det viktig å være anonyme, og noen har ingen interesse av å snakke med andre BDSMere. Det kan være på grunn av jobb eller familiesituasjon, eller man vil rett og slett ikke vise ansikt. 837 more words


Confessions of a Spanko, Part 10 - The Cane, part 3

Here it is, as promised. ‘Confessions of a Spanko’ is one of the longest running series on this little blog of mine, but parts 1-9 were all about me taking the spanking. 781 more words

Kinky Dungeon

When you're ready...

I heard someone say something simple… and sexy… and empowering recently. It had to do with his penis.

More on that in a bit…

This morning, I stumbled across a discussion on Fet related to consent violation… specifically a man confessing to what sure sounded like rape, but then backpedaling into a sad sort of victim-blaming. 269 more words

Real Life

Surges of Love Amidst Brutality — ABCs Of Kink

I updated my Fetlife profile yesterday with some new photos (@CreatureCrea if you’re interested). A couple of them are a bit on the brutal side, depicting around 90 needles as my tools of torture in a CBT scene.

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Playing the Numbers on Fetlife

On Fetlife there is a term «playing the numbers». For the most part, it describes someone (usually a male) who sends a lot of identical PMs to a lot of other people (mostly female). 645 more words



OK guys, it’s here! My very first podcast! I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing LOL but I have sort of created a Podcasts type of thing to go along with my blog so you guys can actually hear my voice and see me in little space interacting with my partner and answering questions and goofing off! 44 more words