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Two Years...

Snake and I have been talking that we are about at our two year kinkiversary.  No, we don’t have an exact date because like most other things in our life, we just decided to make a change and did it.  975 more words


Sharps are a Hard Limit

Long-time readers of INA know that my anonymity in the lifestyle is critical. For that reason I’m not out to … well … anyone really. If I don’t meet you through a lifestyle activity or event, then I look like a soccer mom and anything else would never be suspected. 460 more words


Who's Watching the Watchers?

The communication gamification post the other day prompted some nice comments, but one in particular has stuck with me all week.  Trying to figure out how to explain a bit more about our dynamic (Charmer and Mine) and how it all works, without hanging her (or the commenter) out to dry. 1,046 more words


Who Decides Who Does What In Marriage? (Part One)

I’ve been advocating here on the blog for a division of authority in marriage that is shockingly unrelated to genitalia (Crazy, right?). My focus is to encourage people to get away from labels (“complimentarian”,  “Egalitarian”, “Female-Led Marriage”) and focus instead on dividing authority according to the skills and passions of each member. 1,237 more words


Vegas Day 1...Can I?

Sitting here and waiting for breakfast to arrive while looking out at the Vegas strip.  This has always been one of our favorite places to visit.  1,004 more words


On Being Horngry

Denial and orgasm control are funny things.  With a cage, enforced chastity becomes a thing of power exchange and control.  She holds the power to grant or deny orgasms, period.   918 more words


Meeting Flower

We met Flower this weekend. I can’t believe I actually said that. I can’t believe it actually happened. A big part of me never thought it’d go that far, but it did. 729 more words