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The four men you date in your 40's.

Dating in the twenty-first century has to be punishment from God, Buddha, Krishna, Jehovah, Allah, The Creator or Universe – pick your deity of choice. It has become such a painful experience that I can think of 5,762 things I would rather do than navigate the dating scene. 410 more words


All About Cake

The having, the eating it too. Ah, bliss.

The world is my smorgasbord and I’m eating it up, baby. Now that I’ve embraced this fantastic new idea that the men (yes MEN, plural) in my romantic life are going to be there in a much less official (and frankly much less romantic) capacity, I’m realizing that I can dip my toes into several pools all at once and boy oh boy, is it ever exciting! 956 more words


#13: Friends with Benefits: is it possible for women?!?!

It’s been a while since I wrote about what is going on in my “love life”. Quotations because there isn’t a lot of love happening. There is a lot of sex though. 1,291 more words


Should we break up over "cheating" before we were official?

Dear Megan,

Before my boyfriend and I “officially” became a couple, we spent a year getting to know each other. During this period we were intimate, so I wasn’t dating any other guys and was pretty serious about building a relationship with him. 1,347 more words

Relationship Advice

Let the compersion flow

I must admit I’m have a bit of a tough time at the moment, I’m finding myself to be very time poor again. This always places a strain upon a relationship and perhaps more so with two. 192 more words


A Note on Friends with Benefits

I wish I had something pleasant to write, but I’m in quite a mood.

The backdrop is this: Driven by a desire to be vulnerable again, I decided to revisit dating again, in recent months. 1,098 more words

Reports, Jottings, And Essays

My Thoughts on Friends With Benefits

Recently, I was asked by one of my guy friends if I would be interested in pursuing a purely “physical relationship” (meaning we would just meaninglessly make out – no sex involved). 580 more words