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Cognitive Dissonance

Recently, I was posed with a huge mental dilemma. A supposed friend induced a kind of cognitive dissonance in my mind. I’ll call him Instigator. In essence, he questioned the entire existence of my relationship with my boyfriend, a thought that just wouldn’t have come to my mind on its own, a thought I argued relentlessly upon. 526 more words


The upside of selfishness: selfish kindness

We would all like to think we are not selfish or at least we try to not give the impression that we are. In our culture, selfishness is looked down upon and thought to be a negative trait. 649 more words


Going To My Best Friend's School--Part 3: The Report Card

It’s been a while since I’ve talked about this, so I’m going to fill you guys in.


A year ago, one of my best friends and I decided to sign up for the same high school. 269 more words

Thoughts And Emotions


Before you start reading this, I want to sort of notify you that this isn’t going to be a post as amusing as they may tend to be. 704 more words

November 2015

Me Before You- Jojo Moyes

I am sure this book has meant different things to different people, but here is what it meant to me. I’ll start by telling you guys that I was browsing through my Goodreads app to find a new read after reading Saving Grace by Jane Green. 811 more words


Have You Ever Been In love? Back in the Day; African Style

I have been missing home and thinking of fun things back home and especially growing up and this made me come up with this post. 105 more words


Losing friends


We were friends for almost as long as I’ve known myself. We’d finish each other sentences. Even from across the room at a glance we read each other’s mind and would often burst into spontaneous giggling when a teacher or fellow classmate said something we both thought was utterly stupid. 769 more words

Relationship Ups And Downs