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Surviving Heteronormativity 

As a queer feminist cis woman in a relationship with a straight man, I find myself struggling every day against heteronormative patriarchy. It is a toxic cloud that I am holding at bay purely by the strength of my wit and my will. 1,162 more words


Big Fucking Deal

To my dear boyfriend, please read with caution, though none of this will come as a surprise.

In follow up to this article I recently shared on here as well as on my personal Facebook page about vagina-bearers having unintentionally painful sex, I’ve been doing a lot of soul searching lately. 981 more words


The X-Files - Arcadia (Review)

This July, we’re taking a trip back in time to review the sixth season of The X-Files and the third (and final) season of Millennium… 5,697 more words

The X-Files

"I'm Afraid I Might be Gay."

“I recently discovered I like girly things even though I’m a guy. I love lipstick, silky stuff, the color pink, and am afraid I may be bi or gay. 1,701 more words


It is 2015, right?

It is 2015, right?

I ask this because, in the world of trying to conceive (TTC) and pregnancy, I have read a LOT of books and websites since we started trying to have a baby three (wow, three) years ago. 349 more words

V i r g i n i t y

 or   ?

Both is fine!

The idea of your first penis-in-vagina sexual encounter being something significant and life altering (well, for women anyway) has origins in women being considered property.

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Tweet #gayorgasmsmatter To End Heteronormative Privilege!

By Mssr. Lee Fou

I am  picking up on a theme started by my good friend, Mick Dumdell, the other day to the effect that our heteronormative society places little or no value on the physical sexual manifestations of LGBTQ love.   188 more words

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