This article by John Scalzi sets out a his thoughts on how to raise a “strong woman”; and I can see the merit. However, as I favour both cross-fertilisation of knowledge and avoiding unnecessary gender bias, I wondered if they held if references to female children were removed.
Promote good role models.
Always treat family whose privilege is less as if they were your equals.
Treat others with the same respect as you would family.
Respect others’ agency.
Treat others as thinking beings.
Point out cultural nonsense as it happens.
Support others’ rights and aspirations.
Do all of the above without needing to get credit for it.
To my mind, not a bad set of guidelines for any situation.