1. They see someone’s genuine, imagined or projected fear of abandonment as a valid reason for an abusive person to mistreat others, act erratically and live by a different set of rules than everyone else on the planet including those with less romantic phobias such as fear of snakes, flying, germs, dogs or holes. 712 more words
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