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2016 in Review: Highs (so few), Lows (so many), Dating Woes

So, I have been doing much reflecting on this shit-show we call 2016. Caught in yet another discussion with someone on the plight of black women, specifically dark skinned ones, specifically dark skinned ones with African Featuers, specifically dark skinned ones with African features whose bodies are not of the main stream ideal variety and are more curvy (whether we are regular, overweight or obese). 565 more words

Dialogue

On Chumps and Men Part II

The previous post was getting too long, so I am continuing here. Well actually, in this post I really get to the heart in what bothers me in all this. 1,515 more words

Society

On Chumps and Men

Boy sees woman’s profile on a dating site, boy actually reads profile and sends a message that reflects he has. Woman is surprised as anyone who has done the online dating thing knows most of the men on these sites and apps really suck, or so many women lament. 908 more words

Society

And While we are on the Subject: Sketchy, old(er), Arab Men

I have talked about a strange dynamic between me and Arab men. Some think I should be honored to be with an Arab man since my inferior African genes can get an upgrade a la mixed children. 842 more words

Personal Reflections

On Second Thought.... Eff That...

I realize that as woman, or maybe a person I am continually trying to make peace. It’s this proclivity to let bygones be bygones that mired me in unnecessary stress. 407 more words

Personal Reflections