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On Shame.

I have always referred to my emotions as “my voices” and quested to have pain mute them–or at least tame them to a dull rumble.  While I realize this is not a unique characteristic among masochists, I have resolved to venture into the thought process behind my shame anyway. 439 more words

S&M connections

If we are wired for connection, this will intimately impact how I live my sexuality. No wonder we experience such a strong drive for sexual joining, whatever form it takes! 549 more words


The Exquisiteness of Chaos

(A largely rewritten entry) 

My body betrays me. That is the only way to describe my attachment to BDSM. My body does what my mind does not understand—it loves pain, exposure, grit, and sweat. 366 more words


That's My Job

Me – I think Google’s bots are confused by subcategories, Ma’am.

Her – Well, Google can kiss my ass. I like subcategories.

Me – (Pouting)…But…That’s my job! 70 more words



“There’s a loneliness that only exists in one’s mind. The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is blink.” ― … 171 more words

A garden is a lovesome thing (or not)

Letters from gardeners in three countries (aged from 40 to 80!) Strange that we all go on gardening when it seems to have many inbuilt problems! 441 more words

Incoming Mail

33 People Confess The Shittiest Thing They’ve Ever Done

Found on AskReddit.

1. I told an adopted girl, ‘I can see why your parents hate you.’

“When I told an adopted girl, ‘I can see why your parents hate you.’” 3,761 more words