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Trust & Personal Boundaries

Trust is one of the most important aspects of any polyamorous relationship. Well, of any fulfilling relationship really. I’ve written a little bit about it before but lately it’s been popping up again and again like it’s a lesson that needs to be remembered by rote learning. 652 more words


Apartment Hunting While Poly

E and I are trying to move. Don’t get me wrong, I love my apartment, but between commuting to work everyday, commuting across town every time I see D, and my insatiable rootlessness it makes sense to move to a different neighborhood. 505 more words

The past 2 or so weeks I’ve been thinking a lot about T and missing his quiet, level-headed presence. On Friday night, The Cream got together at T’s house to catch up. 249 more words


poly-testing and personal space

I’ve been here about a week now, it still hasn’t quite sunk in yet that I’m here to stay and this is my new home base. 437 more words

Real Life Experience

Genuine Honesty Pt. 2

At the end of 2016 I took a step back from my polycule which helped me see what I wanted from life and relationships clearer ( 551 more words


Writes of Passage ~ Connection

During my reflections on this topic I thought about water and how it connects us all. It flows from the sky then down through the Earth nourishing every living thing on it’s journey into the sea and back to begin the cycle again. 103 more words


Lately I’ve been reflecting on what I want out of life, and where I want to go with it. Multiple discussions with Hectic over the last year or so have helped me process my ideal relationship status with him as well as with others. 274 more words