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Do My Partners Have Partners? + BONUS: Myths and Facts

Cheers Sexy People!

Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. 1,402 more words


Dear Lovers of my Lovers

All the love I have for my lovers I also have for you. I love all the pieces of them, therefore I love you. What makes them happy and content matters to me and you are a part of that puzzle of their life. 201 more words


What to do if your partner is accused of abuse

There is a lively and timely conversation about abuse in polyamorous relationships, and the ways poly structures uniquely contribute to abusive situations, in both positive and negative ways. 1,262 more words

Sexuality And Relationships

How it all worked out

So I have been insanely busy over the last few days and I haven’t had the time to write. I am sure you will understand when I explain what has been going on. 424 more words


New Year Update

It’s been a few weeks since my last update; unfortunately I caught a viral infection the day after writing my last post and spend three weeks recovering. 497 more words


I read a question post in one of the many poly groups I’m in on Facebook, asking for advice on how to get along with a metamour, especially one that you don’t have much in common with. 261 more words


Poly as a Roller Coaster

So, my last post I was musing on the silence that had descended between me and W after the news of my engagement. In the end I sent him a message enquiring about plans for the weekend. 753 more words