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Permanency and Waiting Children

Of course you can adopt from foster care. And yes, people can become foster parents with the primary purpose of adoption. But the only way these options work is when you understand the primary purpose of foster care. 475 more words


Permanancy and the Lack Thereof

*Please note, this is Sydney, Nell’s intern writing…not Lynell!

This past week, I got a tattoo, which you see pictured above. This is a tattoo that I have been planning to get for a few years now. 378 more words

Self Reflection

Looking out the window

There’s a spot in my house (soon-to-be-ex-house) where I used to stand every morning and look out the window. Our house backs up on a canal and wildlife island, so there are tons of different animals to watch. 806 more words


Effects of the Pressure to Speed Up Adoptions in the British Child Welfare System

This article from the Guardian makes the British child welfare system sound remarkably like NYC’s, and it’s also a good reminder that adherence to an arbitrary timeline is not the solution.   14 more words

Foster Care

Another Assault On ICWA

From Indian Country Today Media Network, War of Words, ICWA Faces Multiple Assaults From the Adoption Industry:

Yesterday the Phoenix, Arizona-based Goldwater Institute announced the filing of 

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Foster Care

"Permanency," Part Three

From the Daily News, more on those “forever families” we’re all so focused on:

They gave up on their “hard-to-place” adopted kids — but not on the government check intended for the discarded kids’ care.

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Foster Care

Friends, That Are Not Forever

How much a person comes to depend upon friendship in a lifetime is beyond comprehension to ordinary thought. As author Massimo Pigliucci says of Aristotle, ‘Aristotle’s opinion was that friends hold a mirror up to each other; through that mirror they can see each other in ways that would not otherwise be accessible to them, and it is this (reciprocal) mirroring that helps them improve themselves as persons. 492 more words

Some Serious Stuff