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Would you like to delete contact? Y/N

It’s been almost a week since I last heard from my ex (5 days and roughly 4 hours). The last words he said to me were “I’m done.” I texted him a few times that night until I gave up in the hopes that he would cool off and get back to me in his own time. 573 more words


Processing out of love

Warning:  This is a lot of brain spillage, just getting my thoughts out at this point in time.  It does not necessarily represent my feelings in the future. 1,258 more words
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Bad to the (Wish)Bone

Whenever people make a list of what they are thankful for, they tend to go for the pretty obvious good stuff – family, health, etc. And while I’m thankful for those things, there came a certain point where I recognized that I should also be thankful for the things that were bad or that didn’t quite go so well, or the things that aren’t quite perfect right now but are getting there. 398 more words


We Did the Mash - We Did the Poly Mash

I was working in my lab, late one night…

This turned out to be a long one – Bear with me, because the context matters.

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And Streeeeeeetch

“Necessity is the mother of invention,” they say.

In Poly, I think a similar phrase would be “Logistics are the mother of boundary stretching.”

My husband recently started dating a new lady, and he seems pretty excited about where things are headed. 1,336 more words


I Lost 29 Years of Baggage in Just 10 Months! Ask Me How!

If it seems too good to be true, it probably is

                          – My grandmother

You learn a lot of lessons when you transition from monogamy to ethical nonmonogamy.

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(Not So) Great Expectations

One of the most appealing things about monogamy, and conversely one of the most common stumbling blocks for anyone who is transitioning from a monogamous to a polyamorous relationship, is the idea of expectations – particularly unspoken expectations that are often taken for granted. 1,111 more words