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Asking the Right Question in Relationships

I am working on a member survey for one of my favorite nonprofits and it has occurred to me that many times, whether in our jobs or our lives, we are asking the wrong question. 566 more words

Parenting And Management

Limit Setting: Grabbing


In a recent thread on one of my facebook groups a parent asked about limit setting, and the model that I use came up (though only a tiny portion of it will be illustrated here…it’s a whole book’s worth). 1,680 more words

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"What's the magic word?"

I try very hard not to force manners on my daughter… I like to model them instead, by simply saying “thank you” or “sorry” or “please” to her and in front of her, at the appropriate times. 808 more words

Manners

Consequences & How We Misuse Them

As most of you who read this blog know, I’m a stickler for words and definitions.  One of the places in which this comes up most frequently is in regard to “consequences.”  It’s not that I like being annoying, it’s that I just can’t help myself from commenting on this.  2,435 more words

Parenting

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I acknowledge it is so difficult to be the unruffled strong leader that our children may always trust to be their guiding star... We, parents, are human (not Supermen) and human often means having weaknesses: our own experience as children, traumas, everyday stress, irrational emotional reactions and inertia in our parenting style. As a mother I often find myself struggling to apply what I know is right versus what I've learned or internalized from my own experience as a child and the reactions resulting from an emotional turmoil at a particular moment. It is not easy to free oneself from reacting in an automatical way and apply parental wisdom instead. Not for most at least. And that is why (appart from ignorance) we often resort to punishmets when children are "misbehaving" (or maybe just doing what they are supposed to do at their age: like exploring how gravity works in practice through food throwing experiments...). However, our own experiences with kids often prove punishment is not really preventing children from repeating undesired behaviors. So then... what to do instead? This article is explaining the difference between using natural, logical and illogical consequences of children's behavior as parenting means. I must admit one would need more preparatory reading if one has not encountered the concept of "natural consequences" before so I intend posting a link to articles that would be helpful for understanding this one better. However, I found this article really worth sharing with you earler than that as it does capture the essence of the core differences between allowing natural or logical consequences to happen and benefits of such parenting approach versus punishments. I always appreciate such reminders on my parenting journey - I have still such a long way to go untill being a mother my wonderful children deserve (not only the one they happened (or chose - depending on your beliefs :)) to be born to). So join me in collecting some useful knowledge that we could use as a map on the way and read on!

Music Soothes the Savage Breast: On Listening

There’s a lot of talk in positive parenting circles–and in general–about the importance of listening to our children, particularly about their thoughts and emotions…and to other people’s children, for that matter.   2,581 more words

Respect

Dr Laura Markham - Getting your 3 year old Up for Bath

Transitions. Aren’t they just the darndest things? Pulling a toddler away from his toys and getting him up for bath is something akin to climbing everest. 52 more words

Peaceful Parenting

Peaceful Parents Ask These 3 Questions

Whenever I talk to friends about parenting – one question I get asked is “What is peaceful, respectful, mindful parenting?”

So here’s the breakdown: Firstly, what peaceful parenting is not. 729 more words

Peaceful Parenting