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Writing Tip: Self-Disclosure

Recently a reader who was enjoying the way I handled my own self-disclosure in The Polyamorists Next Door (where I talk about how my interactions with the polyamorous community affected my life and my research) contacted me to ask if I had an opinion about how zie might handle self-disclosure in zir own writing as both a member of and research investigating an altsex community. 399 more words

Guilt, Shame & the Atonement: A Foreword

I would consider myself to be well-acquainted with shame.  I am not quite sure why I seem to be so naturally shame-prone.  But I am.  I tend to blame it on some mild, sub-clinical social anxiety and some not-so-mild perfectionism. 496 more words

Revisiting: excercising like a girl

I wrote Exercising Like a Girl back in early February, about starting out on a feminist and feminine self-care gym routine.

I’ve been at this for about 6 months now, so this is checking in, and also sharing some other awesome blog posts on the topic which you might appreciate too… 921 more words

Taking A Break

april 14, 2016...

today, i am grateful for…

…a cool, cloudy, overcast day…

…a car to drive…

…the kindness, and compassion, of seth, the medical student, that graduates, in may… 118 more words




: a feeling or belief that you can do something well or succeed at something

: a feeling or belief that someone or something is good or has the ability to succeed at something… 826 more words


present, and accounted for...

i have lived most of my life vicariously, through other people. i have lived a lot of life, inside of my head, where no one can touch me, no one can affect me, no one can penetrate my precious, soft, mushy heart. 395 more words


Who are you?

Well hello, welcome to my blog. For first time reader, you might want to scroll down to know what the hell is jenggama and why I chose it. 1,082 more words