I (Leslie) often ponder what I think I really know and what I’ve accrued and learned as a relationship and sex therapy clinician of 25 years. 2,717 more words
Ways your sex life might change if you have multiple partners over time: "I whole heartedly believe having multiple partners, in general sexual history, is *so* beneficial to sex. The single downside, assuming all sex was safe sex, is that once you've found the couple of partners that really did it for you, without having to work on it, it's challenging not to always compare and wish your current was more like them. But with healthy communication and desire to learn, there is potential for some improvement of sexual compatability in all relationships. Someone with multiple partners is better suited to communicate their needs/desires because they've had the opportunity to become more aware of their full spectrum. Theyve learned what really works for them and what they value most. They are also now more aware of just how many potential partners are out there and may find it easier to end things with someone less compatible, if they've discovered that such things are a long term deal breaker for them."
When you hear ‘high school’ and ‘sex education’ in the same sentence, an instant-cringe response is triggered. You flash back to your early teens, trapped in a sweaty PE classroom, while the elderly school nurse demonstrates rolling a condom (always neon green, for some reason) onto a model penis. 708 more words