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My mom is a Fireworker

The other day, I allowed my two youngest to take our dog Lucy around the block for a little walk. Armed with the required walkie-talkies, I watched them meander down the street together. 1,027 more words

Softening into Shame

Having visited Canada and the motel room I was held in, early in my visit here, I have felt free to explore Niagara Falls. I could be a tour guide now. 1,322 more words


Returning to the Scene of the Crime . . . and letting it go

Niagara Falls, NY

3 months ago, I received an email from John Barnes Myofascial Release offices asking if I would instruct (help John) at the vacation series in Niagara Falls, New York. 1,401 more words


Journey Home

West River Road

In retrospect, I (meaning my ego) went into my first two week intensive kicking and screaming really. It took until day three before I realized my neat and tidy idea of going to Sedona to get fixed and come home all better was not how life worked. 952 more words


Patricia Howitt reblogged this on Radical Healing Blog and commented:

This blog is part I of a series coming out now . . .

Thursday night

I am so anxious right now.  I knew this was going to happen as soon as we were done smoking.  Now it’s just a matter of getting through these next few days… 1,039 more words

The refuge of the body, the succor of sexuality: Have you lovingly jerked off today?

Can you welcome yourself home to your sweet body?

2015 has been an ass-kicking year, for me and for many folks I know. “Relentless” is the word a friend used recently. 573 more words

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I should not read Christian blogs about marriage

Note to my children: this blog post is about sex which, obviously, I know nothing about. After all, parents don’t do such things, and you were all conceived through the sharing of toothbrushes, which is gross enough to think about. 2,170 more words