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Top 13 Divorce Tips - #1 Honor Yourself (a.k.a. The End of Guilt)

Contrary to conventional wisdom, there is no honor in martyring oneself for a relationship.  How many times has a friend said to us that they are staying in a relationship either for the kids, for their family, or for the other person?  768 more words

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Men in the middle

The bulk of us in the middle of the bell curve of male perspectives and issues regarding family are being shouted down by the din from the echo chambers on the right and left.  1,013 more words

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The Friendship Web

Friendships are the collateral damage of every divorce.  Let’s face it.  If you hung out with certain couples before your divorce, that isn’t going to happen afterwards… at least not in the same way.  1,141 more words

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Shared Parenting

Of course the most important decision we had to make with regard to our future lives as co-parents was how we would split our time with our son… 1,258 more words

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Growning Up in Two Homes

When we decided neither of us was keeping the home we had built a mere two years earlier, I looked at many neighborhoods, many homes, and a couple of other school districts.  900 more words

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School Days

One of the first things we had to encounter as recently-divorced parents was the school system.  Ian entered kindergarten about 2 months after we separated.  You would have thought divorce was a brand new concept.  597 more words

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