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Letting go of the past, letting go of jealousy

How do I let go of the past? I want to submit, I want to be at peace. I want a harmonious relationship. This submission thing all seems so great, in theory, but in practice, it is much more difficult. 717 more words

Domestic Discipline

Three and Twenty

We, like may DD couples, have a maintenance day. For us, it is the 23rd of each month. That is the date of our Anniversary, so on the 23rd of each month, we remember our vows to each other with Maintenance. 267 more words

The rules

2 strokes daily maintenance

5-10 strokes for using negative words about myself
10-15 for skipping 2 days in a row of working out
10-15 for eating that which I should not… 119 more words

Domestic Discipline

My first real punishment 

Well last night was a big turning point for us in our relationship. We’ve tried the DD thing before but I felt like he always backed down. 567 more words

Domestic Discipline

This Thing We Do

There is an interesting little phrase/acronym floating around out there in recent years, and it’s been claimed by a very specific community which at best operates on the fringes of what some might consider polite society. 1,504 more words

Husbands And Wives

Bits And Pieces

With about 16 years and 7 children (note: his, hers, ours, and even a couple of theirs that became ours) under our belts, one might wonder where D/s fits into our lives. 846 more words



When I began this blog, I was coming off of 3 years of having a pretty troubled  marriage turning better.  I had learned a lot of lessons.  839 more words

Husbands And Wives