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The Rules #11: If it's Plug-and-Play, it isn't a real relationship. It's you, avoiding yourself.

This one might seem a bit harsh. Oh, well. (Sorry?) I’ve got nothing new going on in my life, so I’m back to dishing out my own perspective. 453 more words


The Accident: A Near-Death Love Story

I was in my mid- 40s when I fell in love with a Chicago police detective who also fell in love with me. We met on the Fourth of July in New Buffalo, Michigan, even though, as it turned out we both lived in Chicago within five miles of each other. 2,291 more words


The Rules Haven't Changed

Jesus said, “Unless you repent, you too will likewise perish.” (Luke 13: 3, 5) What’s the counter for that?  Have I got any other options? Jesus says, ‘No’. 339 more words

Pathway Of Grace


#amwriting #grammar #style #rules

In the past few weeks, I’ve seen too many articles that propound “THE RULES of Writing”. An overabundance, if you will, most of which don’t make any distinction between THE RULES and STYLE CHOICES. 472 more words


Today's Tip: How is your relationship... really?

So I was chatting with a woman this weekend, and, being a Rules dating coach, couldn’t help but ask how she and her boyfriend got together. 295 more words

Dating Advice

Men are not a project

There is saying going around that explains why so many marriages aren’t working:

“Men marry women and expect them to stay the same. Women marry men and expect them to change.” 444 more words


Review: The Rules by the Velominati

Anybody can ride a bike, but not everyone can ride a bike the right way. Apparently.

High likelihood that this will result in me being a badass on my bike.