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"Passing" at church

I don’t go to church, but I made an exception last Sunday for my grandparents’ 60th wedding anniversary.  My family surprised them there and attended service with them, then we took a drive to the church they were married at to take some photos, and then we went out to a fancy lunch. 329 more words


A Year of Heartbreak and Discovery

Tuesday marked one year since the day I came out to my wife and told her that I was questioning my gender.  One year I have been on this journey, and somehow I am still standing and in one piece.   1,619 more words


Social relations. Sigh.

So I feel like a total dweeb today.

As my long term readers know, I don’t give a fine flying about age, rage, gender, religion, or racecar preference, but you’d have trouble figuring that one out today. 253 more words

Thoughts as a Muslim Woman of Trans Experience

1. I was a teenager when I came out as trans. It was a truth I had known long before that cold winter night in Toronto, when we laid in bed and I quietly told my boyfriend I might be one of those people Antony is singing about in I Am a Bird Now. 497 more words


Week 3: Depression Makes an Entrance

How do you take care of yourself? Chocolate? Sleeping in? Working out? Maybe a bit of retail therapy? Whatever you do, hopefully it helps you cope when things get hard and you start feeling down or tired. 599 more words


An update in images.

In my last post and in years passed, I’ve rarely posted updates to who I am, how I’m progressing. This post is to show you a few images that give an idea of how things have gone for me. 240 more words