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Addicted to being a Victim

You are such a victim that you do not recognize the others that share your pain. Instead all you observe is privilege around you even where privilege does not exist. 129 more words

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luckyotter reblogged this on Lucky Otter's Haven and commented:

I can relate to this article by OM so much right now. There are people who wear their victimhood as if it's a trophy and for that reason can never move on from their past and heal from abuse. I feel sorry for them because they don't realize they are letting their abusers win. The best revenge is to reject your victimhood, because that's exactly what your abusers DO NOT want to see. They want you to remain a victim all your life because they know their toxic message to you became internalized and is eating your soul to shreds. You being happy and well will drive them insane. For the record, I am not anti-victim, having been one myself for most of my life, but it shouldn't become a way of life either. There's a time to put it to rest and focus on becoming happy in spite of your past. Tragedy and abuse should never define who you are. The past can be used as common ground to connect with others who have suffered but then we should move on from it by learning from it and helping each other, but you are not your past. You weren't born to suffer in spite of what your abusers have told you. If you want to hang onto your victimhood forever, that's your right of course, but it's wrong to judge those who reject such a depressing and unhealthy philosophy.

Hating Teresa Amato

Why do women prefer to hate Teresa Amato, rather than face the fact that she needs help?

Is it that they don’t want to admit that women like Amato exist? 326 more words

Psychology

What Should We be Learning from the Duggar Situation? – Part 5

Our world is filled with gadgets that have been born out of tragedy. Seat belts. Smoke alarms. Safety scissors. Life jackets. Sun screen.  House alarms. Each of these items is designed to protect us and keep us safe. 876 more words

Why The Democrats Are The Party Of SLAVERY And VICTIMIZATION

 

// This is one of the best Zonation videos. As usual, the ones that already have a grasp of this information will be the ones to watch it. 28 more words

Racism

Democrats Are The Party Of SLAVERY

PJ Media put this video out 3 months ago. Conservative50.com and The Right Scoop posted it again recently due to all the controversy going on with the Confederate flag. 40 more words

News

To everything there is a season...

There seem to be three different kinds of people in the world. Those who are fake-positive, always wearing a plastered on smile and never admitting to failure or to their true emotions; those who walk around wearing their misery like a badge of honor; and everyone else. 1,969 more words

God

Foster care teens vulnerable to traffickers

Some 18,000 to 20,000 missing children incidents are reported every year. Of homeless, runaway or ‘throwaway youth’, a third are lured into prostitution or offered money for sex within 48 hours of leaving home.  1,029 more words

Adolescent Psychiatry